Monday, March 30, 2009

Perfect?

What is essential to share regarding your completion of the Perfect Mate handout? Don't forget to include references to our class discussion.

20 comments:

Kayla Van Hee said...

I think it is essential to talk about who we should really be dating and what is real. There is no one "perfect", but there are people who are right for you. It should be reasonable. As Ms. Deming said today, "I know for my family religious beliefs are important." To her that is important and still reasonable.

Anonymous said...

I think it is essential to know what we want in someone and who would be best for us. There will never be a "perfect mate" because no one or nothing is perfect. It will still be a good match though.

Anonymous said...

I think there are no people that is perfect but there is people right for each other, some of those reasons that they are eight for each other is because of relign, race and other things too.

FAbassi said...

I think it is essential to find someone that you like, and someone your family agrees with because the real "perfect mate" is someone you and your parents agree on. We need someone that fits some of our expectations, although no one is perfect,it wil still end up being a good relationship.

kiaraq said...

I think people should talk about what they look for in someone. No one is perfect but their is someone for each of us. I think you should be able to relate to that person and have common interest that is something I look for.

Amanda said...

I think it is essential to know what your preferances are when looking for a mate, and what you would and wouldn't be happy with. There is a thought of having the "perfect" mate, but no one will ever find what they think of as "perfect". There is the possibility of finding what you may think comes close to perfect and what may be satisfying, and sometimes that is all a person needs to fulfill their wants and needs. It is always important, however, to find some one who will be there for you when you need them and help when you are in trouble. No one is "perfect" but there is always someone to fit a majority of the standards set in place.

KPeterson said...

i think that opposites atract, and having someonewho is different from your self is great. if we were with someone that we have EVERYTHING in common with, itd be like dating ourselvs... strange. everything would get boring easily and youd always agree with again is quite boring. you want to be able to have a conversatino with different opinions and thoughts. thats why having some simalr qualities but not completely the same, is good to have in a "perfect mate". but what is perfect?

Alison! said...

I agree with what most people have said in the sense that I don't think there is the "perfect person" but if like you and your mate were complete opposites that wouldn't work out either. So some essential things that you must share with your mate are beliefs, sense of humor,all around personality, etc.

amariah said...

Many people worry about finding the "perfect person". Although If you depend on searching for your perfect match you will never find them. Nobody is perfect although there are many people that you can be capable with.

GraceK said...

i think its essential to have a wide view when talking about a "perfect" mate. because if you are trying to find "mr. right" you never really know what your "type" is. the atraction should be emotional not only physical or for popularity.

NikkiZ said...
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NikkiZ said...

I think it's essential to know exactly what we look for in a perfect mate. After all what is exactly perfect because no one is exactly perfect. The perfect mate is someone you can depend on someone who shares the same beliefs you do. You shouldn't have one based on looks. What really matters is how that one treats you.
I think that is aperfect mate

Jazzy said...

I think that by completing the Perfect Mate handout made me realize that I'm never going to find someone that fits all the criteria I listed. I think the imperfect and odd things he does make the mate interesting and fun. Hopefully I won't have a mate that is perfect!

loveroflifeisgood said...

Brainstorming for answers for the perfect mate handout shows that the "perfect" person is hard to find. It may be impossible. That is why people commpromise for second best. As close to perfect as we can get because we ourselves are not perfect either.

Corinne said...

I think it’s essential to know what you are looking for even though it might not be what your parents want but what you think is right. There’s always a “perfect” someone for you but you’re the one who has to be willing to look for that one person. Even though no one can really be perfect they can still try and make an effort of achieving more to that perfect state.

Kelley said...

Its very essential to talk about what you would like to find in your perfect guy/girl. It helps keep you on track with the right people where you wont get hurt physically or mentally. No one is going to be a 'perfect mate', but its nice to dream right? Its also important to talk to your parents so they know what you want, sometimes they guess and make wrong desicions which will tear your relationship with them apart.

SarahD!24 said...

I think that the "perfect mate" may be someone that you may not expect. You may not expect this guy that you just met to be the perfect guy but he may be! You also cannot expect a prince charming to come sweep you off your feet. Wait for the right guy but don't be picky about it. For some people they would have to wait for the good looks, or even religious beliefs!

Ariana said...

What we may consider the perfect mate, others may not. In reality the perfect mate is not just one person but many. For different people the perfect mate might rely on religion, looks, and overall characteristics.People have different ideas on who that perfect mate may be.

Anonymous said...

I think that it is crucial to know what we look for in a perfect mate. If we weren't then It would be like walking around with a blindfold on. Sure no one will ever be "perfect" but you can base your decision on your standards. The main thing is to keep in mind what you want and find something that is almost exact in terms of what you had in mind.

Courtney Davis said...

I think it is essential to talk about what someones personality is like more then their apperence or certain qualities. They should be things that realate to you and are things that are always good qualities in anybody.